Feb 02
Purple Spheres
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All people must have or find a “sphere of influence.”

Our sphere of influence is a realm in which we are a mover, a high impact player, the X factor.  Within our sphere of influence, we matter…a lot.

This sphere may be large or small.  It may be easy or hard to find.  It could be a role within our community.   It could be within our family. It could be on a sports team.  It could be within lines of code.  It could be our garden.  It could be the entire world.

The most important thing is that we find it.  We need to find it for ourselves and for everyone else.  Our energy needs to be directed somewhere where it matters.

-Kevin
2.2.2010

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  • bryanhernandez
    Good advice, but why?
  • I'm curious as to why you you think it's good advice. So why do you? Or does it just seem right?
  • bryanhernandez
    Yeah, I think there's much that can be said about this. My hunch is that
    the ends that these means serve are more important. I'll give it some
    thought and reply with what I find.
  • Also, Bryan, this post is deceivingly important, which is why I ask for your thoughts. It's a lead-in to a set of posts that will ultimately lead to something you're interested in: the future of journalism. More than that, a path to the future of Journalism. And your hunch is correct, the ends are more important than the means.
  • bryanhernandez
    Yes, I suspected that. Having an arena to direct purposeful intent
    definitely does help to keep motivation present and energy high. It's not
    the first thing that came to mind though.

    I initially thought that these arenas/spheres of influence are most
    important for maintaining an ego. You and I both know how powerful an ego
    can be. When the going gets tough, and the tough are going, I think it's
    the ego that keeps us moving. I wonder about the interdependence of the
    "arena" and the ego themselves. Can one exist without the other? I think
    everyone has an arena for which they foster an ego, even if it's only the
    tiniest little bit. Some people's arena exists only to themselves. No one
    knows that they expend much time and energy in this arena and for some this
    is fine and enough to keep them going. They are internally motivated
    without attachment to even future externalization (and by this I mean
    allowing others to see, know, or be influenced by) of this arena. Examples
    might be the poet or writer that never publishes his works nor intends. But
    this example is on the far end of the spectrum.

    On the other end, are people who keep their "arena" very visible and
    public. Once someone has fostered their ego enough, he can move his arena
    to become more open and public, which results in increased effort,
    consciousness, and investment in maintaining his role as an *influencer* in
    this given sphere. This is a useful thing to know about one's self. As
    you've already discussed, a simple example of this is making public one's
    own New Year's resolution. The stronger the ego you have, the further you
    can push it into the public sphere and in return you are inherently
    motivated to work even harder to maintain your position and ego. The risk
    here is pushing it too far and damaging your ego, which would have the
    opposite effect; although, I think for some people this isn't possible.

    It all goes back to one of the fundamental desires most, if not all, people
    want: the desire to be important.

    I'm interested to hear your thoughts on the relation to journalism...
  • When it comes to the person that isn't interested in showing their work publicly ("the writer that doesn't intend to publish their work" example), I have a slightly different perspective that I only recently developed when writing my book. These people that don't seem to have a need for showing their work publicly actually have the largest egos of all. There are two reasons why they would choose to do this:
    1) The bigger the ego, the higher the barrier to showing your work publicly. It's very risky to put your ego on the line when it is very valuable/larger.

    2) Their ego is large enough that they don't care about other people's opinions. They create for themselves. They themselves are the only "Sphere" they care about.

    A person's ego exists without having a Sphere of Influence. But their ego isn't quenched without its respective Sphere. Stable people that aren't flitting around doing different things have their Sphere of influence. These people also seem to be the happiest as we've already said (they know they matter.)

    So here's the conclusions your comment brought me to:
    A) The most applicable definition of Sphere of Influence: "our place within our community." (The full pretentious definition would probably be "our place within the chain of being".)

    B)You could think of a Sphere of Influence as being a function of Ego and Abilities. Abilities, what we're able to do, change how we express our ego (publicly, privately, etc.). However, abilities also define what community we're apart of, which also changes the nature of our Sphere. The greatest painter may only paint for himself. The greatest communicator will likely be a voice for people.

    C) It is naive to think of an individual's Sphere as large or small, great or superfluous. It is what it is: a place where the individual exerts their influence within the chain of being.

    At the time, when the greatest painter paints only for himself, his sphere may seem small. When his paintings are discovered buried beneath his house, his Sphere may end up being the world over when his paintings bring awe to everyone. But, the same goes for things we may consider less "important." We should hope a brick layer recognizes his Sphere. No one may ever know who they were in our society, they aren't as influential over the minds of the recipients of their work. But the recipients will benefit from the integrity of the work when they walk through the brick layer's buildings.

    Basically, it's worthless trying to examine a given Sphere when it's isolated and extracted from the greater chain. Which is a bit cliche/hippie-ish sounding to me as I write this, but I guess I never really had it come into perspective until now.
    Which comes back to what our intuitions told us, what is important is that we create (fill?) these Spheres of Influence that make up this fabric of being.
  • bryanhernandez
    This discussion is in dire need of a Wave, but in the absence of that, I've
    just copied your last comment to add my comments in context.


    When it comes to the person that isn't interested in showing their work
    publicly ("the writer that doesn't intend to publish their work" example), I
    have a slightly different perspective that I only recently developed when
    writing my book. These people that don't seem to have a need for showing
    their work publicly actually have the largest egos of all. There are two
    reasons why they would choose to do this:
    1) The bigger the ego, the higher the barrier to showing your work publicly.
    It's very risky to put your ego on the line when it is very
    valuable/larger. *

    Part of this is true, it's risky to put something of your own on the line
    when it's very representative of you, but I think it has more to do with the
    fact that it's "near and dear" to you than it does with the ego bit. I
    think it's the ego, and the drive to grow one's sphere of influence and ego,
    that drives the publishing of one's work. The barrier to doing this, I
    think has more to do with the size of the sphere of influence, after all,
    it's easier to show your mom something than all your colleagues.*

    2) Their ego is large enough that they don't care about other people's
    opinions. They create for themselves. They themselves are the only "Sphere"
    they care about. *

    This makes sense, which basically tells us that the fact that someone isn't
    interested in publishing their works can't tell us much about his ego.
    There are people that create/contribute for their own satisfaction and there
    are those looking to create/contribute to increase their sphere of
    influence, gain recognition, or do something important.*

    A person's ego exists without having a Sphere of Influence. But it isn't
    quenched without its respective Sphere. Stable people that aren't flitting
    around doing different things have their Sphere of influence. These people
    also seem to be the happiest as we've already said (they know they matter.)

    *By definition an ego cannot exist without a sphere of influence. Perhaps
    this person doesnt actually have a great deal of influence in the sphere
    after all, but there needs to be a place for an ego to live. In other
    words, someone needs to have a place towards which the are applying this
    ego. Otherwise, to what does the ego refer? *

    So here's the conclusions your comment brought me to:
    A) The most applicable definition of Sphere of Influence: "our place within
    our community." (The full pretentious definition would probably be "our
    place within the chain of being".)

    B)You could think of a Sphere of Influence as being a function of Ego and
    Abilities. Abilities, what we're able to do, change how we express our ego
    (publicly, privately, etc.). However, abilities also define what community
    we're apart of, which also changes the nature of our Sphere. The greatest
    painter may only paint for himself. The greatest communicator will likely
    be a voice for people.

    *OK, but I think the non-trivial case is the sphere of influence of which a
    person chooses to be a part. Choosing to be a part of a community is
    significant because it shows how you value your energy and demonstrates
    where you want to spend your time.*

    C) It is naive to think of an individual's Sphere as large or small, great
    or superfluous. It is what it is: a place where the individual exerts their
    influence within the chain of being.

    *From what I've seen, the larger someone's influence grows in a given
    sphere, the more that person is influenced by it, surprisingly. People
    start to depend on that person for their contribution which often times has
    a reinforcing effect. I think it's important to observe this because it
    allows for one to take advantage of these social-influence-sphere forces and
    dynamics to achieve the ends of one's wants.*

    At the time, when the greatest painter paints only for himself, his sphere
    may seem small. When his paintings are discovered buried beneath his house,
    his Sphere may end up being the world over when his paintings bring awe to
    everyone. But, the same goes for things we may consider less "important."
    We should hope a brick layer recognizes his Sphere. No one may ever know
    who they were in our society, they aren't as influential over the minds of
    the recipients of their work. But the recipients will benefit from the
    integrity of the work when they walk through the brick layer's buildings.

    Basically, it's worthless trying to examine a given Sphere when it's
    isolated and extracted from the greater chain. Which is a bit
    cliche/hippie-ish sounding to me as I write this, but I guess I never really
    had it come into perspective until now.
    Which comes back to what our intuitions told us, what is important is that
    we create (fill?) these Spheres of Influence that make up this fabric of
    being.

    *This I agree with. There isnt much point in trying to evaluate things
    youre working on in private and dont have greater goals for it. There's
    simply no way to tell what it will do when/if it gets into someone else's
    hands.
    The more public cases are the interesting ones, I think, because they can be
    manipulated in order to accelerate one's own progress in some given area. A
    little pressure is usually good, and this is just another way to find it.
    *
  • One universal reason I can give is the personal benefit of relevance. If we have a defined arena that we're conscious of, we can more tangibly feel the effects of our actions. We need our efforts to feel purposeful in order to direct energies purposefully. And of course, civilization/society/our sphere needs purposeful action.
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